Are there some mystic reasons why most people pull off the idea of getting married?
Of course, there is, a lot of reasons, but what are these reasons. What are these excuses, these magical reasons that could make someone give up the idea of getting married no matter what?
Well to be honest with you it’s scared me, even though it’s one of the purposes we are all in this life
But yet, a lot of people these days are going away from this. They are doing whatever they can just to get away from this nature purpose as far as possible just to either maintain, expose or retain of their own.
Life is weird and it is full of surprises and choices. You can’t quantify what could make someone change and the reasons for their transformations.
Regardless of why people change, I’ve heard so many men and women giving distinct reasons why they don’t want to get married.
So many of them explain how they turn down many proposals without giving them a second thought,
but in all from what I picked from some of their reasons are said to be the prominent reason why they don’t ever want to be married, which I will be outlining below:
1. they are sexually satisfied
Yes, this is one of the main reasons why most people regard marriage as fiction. You may be wondering how sex became one of the key reasons when there are other significant and legitimate reasons why many individuals are fleeing from the act known as "marriage."
We're no longer in the 19th century if you recall. These days, everything appears to be different. Everything you could do with a man or a woman in the 19th century, even if it had to do with sex, would need signing that paper.
But these days, you can do whatever you want and have sex whenever and wherever you want with anyone you're sexually attracted to. Without the need to sign any dem marriage pepper.
Sex plays an important role in people's daily lives, especially when it comes to determining what they want, and it's terrible that most individuals who marry don't do so because they desire companionship, caring, love, and other things that are associated with marriage.
They merely marry for the sake of having sex. They want someone who has a pleasant and healthy sexual life. However, when things did not go as planned, things were extremely unstable for them.
Detachments and other forms of marital trauma appear.
That’s when you see most couples divorcing each other without hesitation, and you’re left wondering what transpired to cause such a decision.
However, the way things have turned out these days, you can have sex with a variety of men and women, both satisfying and unsatisfying, which made People begin to lose interest in anything resembling marriage in the scenes.
Because they believe that being married is meaningless as long as they can have nice and satisfying sex outdoors.
2. They can get whatever they desire via other methods
If you ask me, I'd answer yes. Because you can't just get over something if you don't have any other options.
You can't get over your ailment if you don't have any medications to help you. You can't get out of any troubles or scenarios you may find yourself in if you don't have any solutions.
That is why you see sick individuals traveling to hospitals, even different hospitals, and people with various difficulties going to therapists, visiting their friends, family, and so on to obtain aid and be alleviated from their troubles.
the scene goes to people who don't want to get married. Marriage is emotionally inescapable for the vast majority of people today. Because they know how to achieve what they want from marriage without having to woo someone.
They believe they can have children, live a happy life, earn more money, drive any car they want, and live in any house they want without having to sign a deed to stay with someone who may not provide them with all of those things.
Regardless. People believe this for a variety of reasons, which has kept them single up to this point. They believe that getting married will have no impact on their lives.
3. Not ready to give up any addiction or lifestyle for anyone
Because of a note like this, some people have turned down countless proposals in order to remain single: “I have no intention of giving up my addiction. If you want me, come and get me ike this, my addiction is my top priority” which would never happen. No one wants to be a second-best option; everyone wants to be listed among the first.
In such instance, they abandon the goal of getting married in favor of focusing on what makes them happy, and you’re left wondering what the hell happened. , what kind of dreadful situation is this? how could someone do anything like that?
As I’ve previously stated, things are different these days. People are evolving daily. Anyone can do things that you would never expect of them.
Isn’t it evident that they don’t want to abandon them? However, they are too ignorant to know what to use at the place where their addictions have taken root. And the substance of these addictions could only be:
woman
Partying
Gambling
Social media
Masturbation
Drinking and smoking
And so on.
So tell me, if you were the one who was hooked to all of these, would you ever consider marrying?
4. They feel disheartened by what they see around them
Yes, everything is plain and understandable. Even I can’t get into some shit that ends up harming someone close to me. Even if I’m told to, I’m not going to do it.
Because I can’t imagine myself in a complicated scenario that I will regret just to be married. I won’t stand for anything or anyone abusing who I am merely to be with someone.
These are the kinds of thoughts that keep most men and women from marrying. They believe that if someone they know can be seriously injured simply because they want to fulfill nature’s purpose, how can they believe that they won’t face similar or worse situations when they marry someone?
They choose to stay at their base and enjoy being single rather than witnessing or going through hell only to be with someone.
5. They don’t want to be associated with the wrong person
It’s clear that some men and women who made such a decision are experiencing anxiety as a result of these attitudes; "not being so sure and lack of trust." They’re having trouble with these two because of a negative encounter they had with someone they used to know.
You know how difficult it is to go on a mission when you have no idea how it will turn out. It’s like driving to a place you’ve never been before. People don’t require someone who will treat them badly.
They don’t require someone who treats them as if they are a burden. As a result, they believe that staying single is preferable to marrying someone they don’t know or trust completely. No one wants to go to hell or be treated as trash.
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